Havelock Scoop

Not everyone minds being shepherded through a receipt checking blockade in supermarkets and retail stores. Many folks, in fact, will gladly turn their receipts and the contents of their shopping carts over for inspection, according to a recent Havelock Scoop poll.

Eight of 19 respondents said they “gladly” show their receipts when asked. Another eight said they participate, but don’t like to do so. Just one said he or she refuses all bag and receipt checks — an answer more people should give.

Blogger David Pelfrey wrote an excellent essay on receipt checking — a growing practice among retail stores. A portion of it is excerpted below; click here to read the full post.

Here’s a scenario that is familiar to anyone who has ever set foot in Wal-Mart, CVS, Rite-Aid, or any of a dozen other major retailers. After you have made a purchase, collected your bags, or packed everything into a shopping cart, you head for the exit. Just as you approach freedom an alarm sounds (usually a sequence of ugly, electronic grunts) and a robotic voice (always female) announces: “Please return to the checkout.” Other customers immediately look in your direction, and an employee begins to approach you. What’s your next move?

If you possess an ounce of personal pride or perhaps two ounces of fortitude, then the 100 percent correct move is to proceed immediately out the door. Why? There are many reasons, chief among them being that rational adults should not instantly obey mechanical voices (unless that voice instructs us to exit a burning aircraft). Also, if you haven’t stolen anything and therefore do not require interrogation, there is absolutely nothing that should compel you to linger post-transaction. It’s depressing enough simply being there in the first place.

 Another good reason to make a quick exit is that you aren’t being paid to assist some giant retailer with its security measures. You aren’t part of the team, and you didn’t clock in. The clearest reason for leaving the store, however, is that there exists absolutely no legal obligation to remain there, and the store has no right to detain you.

Havelock voters want to send Barack Obama to the White House, Beverly Perdue to the governor’s mansion and Walter Jones to the Capitol, according to unofficial results from tonight’s primary.

Obama beat Democratic rival Hillary Clinton by more than 100 votes in Havelock’s two precincts, and New Bern native Perdue spanked Richard Moore by a wide margin. Despite a groundswell of conservative support, Republican challenger Joe McLaughlin was edged out by the incumbent Jones.

News services already are projecting that Obama will win North Carolina’s Democratic primary. Check the Havelock News online for late-breaking results tonight — Ken and I will be in the office until we have all the Havelock-area numbers.

Did you vote? Did your candidate win? Leave a comment and let us know what you thought about this year’s primary races.

As newspapers strive to bolster their online presence, more of my Freedom ENC Communications colleagues are blogging. Here are a few newer blogs that pique my interest.

Huff’s World — Sun Journal sports editor Jess Huffman shares his perspective on local and national sports — and the task of reporting on them.

Press Play — Jose Perez of the Kinston Free Press writes this interesting and insightful technology blog.

Lost in K-Town – The Free Press’ Phillip Ameling provides a newcomer’s view of life in Kinston and eastern North Carolina.

Off the Cuff — Jacksonville Daily News crime reporter Lindell Kay discusses Onslow County crime in this, ahem, arresting blog.

For a more or less complete listing of Freedom ENC’s staff blogs, click here.

Pain and pride. Embarrassment and elation. Reluctance and resolve. A night of contrasts bled into morning as I staggered off the quarter-mile track.

The blister forming on my left heel landed with a sore thud, my calves ached, my legs chafed. I had just walked 26.2 miles in the Craven County Relay for Life, an overnight team walk that raised nearly $335,000 for the American Cancer Society.

In these pages, I pledged to walk a marathon in exchange for your donations. I kept my word April 25 and 26, completing the last of my 105 laps in the pre-dawn stillness. Because of your support, I was able to give relay organizers $547 in cash and checks.

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As a terse warning to an amnesiac world, “history repeats itself” is clever. Applied to an individual lifetime, the old axiom is as false as it would be fantastic.

 We live without the benefit of cosmic second chances, do-overs, fresh starts. Each decision we make is frighteningly final; without the ability to rewind time’s relentless spool, we must choose and discern without comparative wisdom. Once we’ve made a choice, we can’t take a mulligan and test alternate outcomes — Robert Frost’s “road less traveled” may take form in the rearview mirror as an eight-lane interstate of regret.
 
That’s the premise of Franco-Czech novelist Milan Kundera’s “The Unbearable Lightness of Being,” a neat bit of philosophical fiction that left its imprint on at least one more addled mind this month. The theme of whimsy’s painful permanence resonates here at the intersection of roads not taken, paths unmapped and forbidden freeways where the fortunate cruise contentedly.

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The Sunshine State is already ridiculed for its inability to count ballots. Now, Florida could develop a reputation for roadway censorship.

State lawmakers are considering a ban on replica bull testicles on car and truck trailer hitches, according to this AP story. Some lawmakers say the accessory is obscene, and an amendment to a highway safety bill would allow police to give out $60 tickets for displaying the plastic hitch covers.

Tastelessness shouldn’t be illegal. I hope the Legislature doesn’t have the ba — er, the guts — to pass this asinine amendment.

West Craven High will be the first county high school to make its students wear uniforms if the school board approves the request as expected Thursday evening.

A request from the school administration to adopt a uniform policy is included on the Craven County Board of Education’s consent agenda, Chairman Carr Ipock said today. Consent agenda items are usually approved in a single vote with little discussion.

I’ve always opposed student uniforms in public schools because they stifle expression and creativity. It was heartening, however, to see that this compulsory conformity was confined to elementary and middle schools. Now, the same rules that apply to children will be foisted on young adults with driver’s licenses and jobs.

But, to quote comic and social commentator George Carlin, “it’s not a new idea.”

“I first saw it in old newsreels from the 1930s,” Carlin said in his act. “But it was hard to understand because the narration was in German.”

UPDATE (April 21, 10:05 a.m.) — The school board postponed its vote on the West Craven uniform policy Thursday, according to the Sun Journal’s coverage. Uniforms have not (yet?) been adopted for the 2008-09 school year.

I always enjoy reading Man on a Bike, an online column written by Sun Journal editorial assistant Justin Schoenberger. It provides some perspective for those of us who’ve been frustrated by the prospect of sharing the road with cyclists.

The column asserts — correctly — that bikes have the same rights as cars, but drivers usually throw their four-wheeled weight around, hogging the road and failing to yield the right of way. However, the latest installment describing a close call between the writer and a motorist gives me pause.

Justin writes that a woman driving an Acura made a left turn without yielding to his right turn, but his narrative indicates he wasn’t giving up an inch: “…when I kept going as if she hadn’t just failed to pay tribute to my existence on the road, she proceeded to give me a dirty look.”

Having the right of way doesn’t magically absolve us of the responsibility to exercise caution. I can’t count the number of times I’ve yielded to someone barreling through an intersection when it’s really my turn to turn. You can shout, scream, stew, fume, honk the horn if you’d like, but challenging someone to a game of tandem-turn chicken is just plain irresponsible.

A small wedge is missing from the grille. It gives my new car the giddy grin of a champion boxer whose front teeth were bashed out.

The faded silver paint is speckled with worn-in gunk that no car wash could remove. The right side sports two chrome hubcaps, but the left-side tires have no ornamentation.

I’m proud of the cracked leather seats and sagging roof. My car may not have a CD player — or more than one working speaker. But, it has character.

I bought the 1989 Buick Park Avenue for $600 cash. My friend had owned the aging sedan for about a year and wanted to sell it so he could buy a car from his father. Three weeks prior, my green Chrysler Concorde had sputtered to an unceremonious stop on the roadside, and my mechanics couldn’t revive the engine.

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The optimal duration for sexual intercourse is 3 to 13 minutes, according to a study that will be published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine next month. Click here to read the Associated Press story.

The 2005 survey of 1,500 couples concluded that 1 to 2 minutes of lovemaking wasn’t enough, but satisfactory sex takes anywhere between 3 and 13 minutes — not including foreplay — for the average couple.

Readers of Romenesko’s Obscure Store & Reading Room, the blog where I first saw this study, suggest that mainstream advertising is playing to our perceived inadequacies and giving people the misconception that good sex has to last for hours. What sayeth Havelock Scoop readers?